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A Couple of Quick Pix

Labour Day weekend was a mixed one at Chez Entropez. Saturday we went back to the Fair because HouseApe 2.0 was dancing. As before, we turned the kids loose for a period and let them do what they wanted, which was to ride rides. They got tired around 3:30 or so and came to meet us for the Naval Tattoo, which isn’t as sexy as it sounds.

Although it was pretty cool. The picture above are the Royal Marines, who I liked best. After the pipe bands, of course. There wasn’t near enough bagpipe music, but that’s the case with a Naval Tattoo – bagpipes are not a part of the seagoing tradition.

After the tattoo we went for dinner and then we went to the Superdogs and then the kids rode more rides.

These are two of my girls (the oldest one wasn’t riding any rides). If we were to stop and reflect, we would probably marvel at how quickly and easily these two have bonded and become sisters. Mostly, we’ve been wondering when the honeymoon would be over, but it hasn’t ended yet. I’m sure that there will come a time when there is conflict between them – or rather, when there is conflict that isn’t quickly resolved. So far they have had minor disagreements about things, but they have handled these disagreements themselves with little fuss.

I have more pictures but I haven’t finished processing them yet. I downloaded an eval copy of Adobe Lightroom and it is works as slick as a $10 whore on a Sudbury Saturday night, but I still have a lot of images to go through yet.

A Long Overdue Update

Happenings around Chez Entropez in the last while:

  • I bought us a new desktop computer. The old one was purchased in (I think) 2005, so it was about time. The new one is a 6 core with with 6Gb of RAM and the base ATI video card. I will have to upgrade the video card at some point, probably next year, but so far the new machine is NIIIIICE. I also got a 21″ monitor with a webcam and microphone – not because I wanted them but because they were included in the monitor that was the right size, prize, and resolution. I used them to try out Google’s phone, and I must say I was impressed.
  • We hauled ourselves off to the PNE last Thursday. We had intended to get there in the early afternoon, but what with various people needing, losing, and requiring new prescriptions of various things, we didn’t get there till 3:00 or so. For the first time evar, we turned the kids loose with ride passes and a little money for snacks, and Christine and I wandered around the rest of the fair enjoying ourselves. Our enjoyment was tempered by Christine’s discomfort, however. A tooth that she had just had filled had become infected, and so she was in some pain.

    It was a cool day, midweek, and so the fair wasn’t crowded. The kids got our money’s worth with their ride passes, and we learned a lesson: don’t depend on 14 year olds hearing a ringing cell phone at a fair. We will be going back next Saturday, because HouseApe 2.0 is dancing, and we will arrange times and places to meet.

    There will probably be a post with some pictures and things, but I haven’t processed any photos for a while, so…

  • On Flickr, there seem to be a huge number of people who post nothing but pictures of what look to be expensive huge-eyed dolls as if they were real people. See here and here and here
  • I don’t like John Lennon’s music.
  • My stress these days is ubiquitious, and I am snarly as a result. There’s the good/bad low-level stress of trying to sell the house and all that that entails – trying to keep the place so that it can be showing condition with an hour’s notice, uncertainty about the future, schools, etc. And then there’s work, which has become such a maelstrom of douchebaggery that I have started to disengage. Nobody talks to me much any more (it’s not because I’m me, it’s because nobody talks to anybody any more) so I just sit at my desk and work on things I think are important. Right now, this involves providing huge amounts of data to somebody who is attempting to remedy a colossal bout of douchebaggery that caught up to the company a couple of months ago, but that is a stressful occupation all on its own – the people who want the data don’t understand the difficulties in querying tables with more than a billion rows in them, and people who want other things done and who are used to just dropping by are just dropping by.

    I am not snarly with the children, but at work I can feel my blood pressure rise when people get in my way.

Sometimes I hate being a grown-up

As I was leaving to catch a ferry which wound up being 45 minutes late (but still an hour closer to being on time than Dean’s ferry), HouseApes 2.0, 3.0, and a couple of 2.0’s friends were preparing to go tubing behind my dad’s boat:

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Tomorrow will be more of the same, while I go back to work.

NO FAIR!!!!!!!

Back At Work

We will probably be babbling about various aspects of this vacation at various times in the future, but eh, it’s our blog so y’all will just have to deal with it.

The vacation was broken into 4 distinct phases.

Phase 1: acquisition of HouseApe 1.0, and frantic final preparation of Chez Entropez for listing for sale. This phase was marked by Dean’s wrinkled brow and by remarkably good teamwork.

Phase 2: car and motel in Nelson BC, to meet Dean’s brother and his 5 HouseApes. This phase was marked by a disorganized mob of 8 HouseApes all getting along well and being barely seen by their parents.

Phase 3: staying at Chris’ parent’s place in Vancouver and doing Vancouver touristy things. This phase was marked by escalating fatigue on the part of Dean and Chris (or Chris and Dean, depending on which side of the family you are on) – having fun is tiring on parents. But still fun!

Phase 4: back at Chez Entropez, and trying to get ready for people to go various places such as work or Science and Lego camp, and to The Lion King next weekend.

Some phases have pictures that go with them. I will include only 1, unaltered, from Phase 3.

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Day 2 and Day 3

Another brief update, which may not even be possible because the hotel wifi is flakey.

Saturday was Day 2 so after breakfast we went into the city of Nelson to wander around. Being a group of 10, we ended up splitting up into groups. HouseApes 1.0 and 2.0 went with their girl cousin, who is 20, while the boys clustered together in a rabble of 4 with my sister-in-law in tow to provide funds. We, in the meanwhile,had give HA 3.0 $5 to do with as he liked. So Chris and I ended up wandering by ourselves for an hour or so.

Much of the city is of late Victorian vintage, and somehow time and progress have done less damage here than in other places.  It is a small city (I don’t have a population count handy, but I’d guess maybe 30,000) and there are relatively few modern buildings. I remember being through Nelson in about 1970 or so, and it was down at heels then.

It has revitalized since, and is a thriving artsy/craftsy post-hippie place. The West Kootenays were a favourite destination for American draft dodgers during the Vietnam war, and many of the peace n’ love set that came then settled down to stay, so there is a profusion of arts and crafts and crystal readers and ancient Volkswagens along with a dearth of ball caps and pickup trucks – decidedly refreshing for a BC interior city even if you aren’t into the whole granola/earth mother/moon goddess/chakra scene.

We had lunch at an Indian place called Baba’s and then headed back to the motel for the afternoon, where most of us went to the little beach and swam and lazed in the sun, which drove the afternoon temperature to 34 or so. For dinner we had nachos and salad and something else that I can’t remember.

Day 3 we got all prepped and headed for Kokanee Creek park for lunch. We hauled all the coolers et al for 12 people to the picnic table near the water, only to have the wind pick up and blow straight down the lake. I went in for a swim, but Kootenay Lake is big and stays pretty cold, and the wind was churning up the cold water from below. With the wind, it was a cooling experience. Thunderheads started stacking up over the mountains to the west, so we decided to pack up and head north to Ainsworth Hot Springs.

Along the way we stopped at Coffee Creek where it tumbles under the road. It is recent snow-melt, and is cold and clean. We spent a good 45 minutes there before resuming the trip to the hot springs.

The hot springs resort is smallish and low-key. It had been upgraded in the nearly 35 years since I had last been there, a larger main pool, the hotel completely rebuilt, etc, but the central feature, the cave, was the same. They had added a small cold pool, but it is 55 degrees, no colder than the lake below – a good routine is a trip through the caves, including a few minutes at the source where it is the temperature of very hot bathwater, really only tolerable if you’ve already been immersed in the water on your way in, then an immersion in the cold pool, including your head, and then into the main pool to relax for half an hour before repeating.

The thunderstorms continued through the afternoon, and we had to get out of the pool at regular intervals as a cell passed overhead. When we weren’t standing waiting, we were enjoying being in the hot pool in the rain.

We lounged there for 4 hours and then headed back to Nelson for a late dinner at a place called the Redfish Grille, finishing up and closing that place down at 10:00 on a Sunday night. We left our sculptor waitress a $45 tip, though, so I think she was probably ok with it.

On the way back, we had to stop at the motel to change, and as we were leaving, we stopped for a half hour to watch lightning strikes on the mountain opposite the motel. I, stupidly, didn’t take any photos, but Chris took some. The lightning would hit, and then a scant minute later there’d be a plume of smoke. On some of them, you could see the glow of the tree(s) in flame. The lightning was accompanied by heavy rain, though, and the fires went out within a few minutes.

Pictures and more later, I hope.

Quick Vacation Entry

Day 1:

Clean frantically, do final tidying. Planned to leave at 9:00, wound up leaving around 9:30.

Drive to the Hope Slide. Children attempt to feed chipmunks in the rocks with marginal success.

Drive to the Manning Park Lodge, stopping at two places in between, the Engineer’s Road and Sumallo Grove. The Engineer’s Road is the remnants of a wagon road constructed through this difficult terrain in the 1860’s. Sumallo Grove is old growth forest with a bridge over (I think) 10 Mile Creek. 10 Mile Creek is very cold – I’d guess, from wading, about 5 degrees.

Lunch at Manning Park Lodge, where our waitress was Sandra, a beautiful young woman with an Irish accent. We all had BLTs except HouseApe 3.0, who had a burger. The Instant Twins had salad with theirs, while Chris and I had mulligatawny soup.

After lunch, the rest of the family fed the very tame prairie gophers that have somehow been imported and made their home around the lodge.

After this, we stopped in Princeton for cold drinks and rolled up the windows. It was 36 in spots – at the top edge of comfortable for me, and getting too warm for all my girls.

We had planned to stay near Oliver, but when we got there, there really wasn’t any place to stay. Many of the motels I remember are gone now, torn down for retirement housing. We went back to Osoyoos, and checked in at the Best Western. The restaurant at the hotel is the Bombay Grill, and I have to say that it is as good as anything in Vancouver. We had an excellent meal there: butter chicken, shahi paneer, vegetable pakoras, vegetable pulao, naan, and roti. After that we walked down to the lake, and then had giant ice cream cones. I had licorice, for the first time in many, many years.

On Vacation

We have had trouble with our vacations the last year.

In July last year, we were only a couple of days from leaving on our camping trip when my mother’s demise became evident, and we spent the 2 weeks on death watch.

In July this year, we had planned a full 2 week camping expedition, but the joyous news of our bouncing new baby 13 year old girl meant that we 1. had to spend all our money and energy getting our house ready for sale and 2. not be out of phone contact for long, so we have altered that plan. We will now go for 5 days through populated areas.  We will be meeting up with my brother and his brood.

These kids.

Chris and I are looking forward to a few days where there is no work to do, no paint to apply, nothing to pack, clean, move, worry over. A few days where the kids will run together as a tumbling happy pack and the adults can talk and drink and just relax.

I have to remember to bring a book.

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That Change I Have Been Hinting At

I recognize that this is not big news to most of you, but it is huge to us. 12 years of waiting and ferry trips and gas and biweekly trips and constant separations from one person or another are at an end. HouseApe 1.0 has come to live with us, and where we were a family of 4, we are now 5.

Instant fraternal twins.

This is the reason that we have been so stressed and tired lately. While this is a good change (a very, very good change), it is a big one. We have to sell our townhouse and find something bigger. This has been a huge amount of work that isn’t yet complete – the next two days are ones of labour – but this work is probably the most worthwhile of my life.

Everything is new again.

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Happy 4th of July

To all my American friends, may you have the 4th of July that you most desire.

You aren’t a young republic any more – somewhere in my lifetime you’ve gone from exuberant youth to sober middle age. And just as it is with youthful people who grow into middle age, you have started to realize that the myths that you created for yourself possess only limited truth.

A nation is more than a collection of stories. There is a great deal about you that is good and strong and true.

Happy Birthday, United States of America.

Dream Guilt

I woke this morning around my usual time, which is about when dawn starts breaking these days.

I lay in bed not wanting to get up and drifted back to sleep. As often happens, I woke maybe 45 minutes later from a dream in which I realized that HouseApes 2.0 and 3.0 were still living at home at 33 and 50.

“She’ll never get a job now,” I said to Chris. “She’s unemployable.”

Presumably the mutable time that allowed them to live at home for 30-some years while I didn’t notice and Chris and I didn’t age was also the mutable time that expanded the gap in their ages from 5 to 17 years.

The thing that upset me, and that I still feel now, is the sense that we had failed them. I am quite sad as I write this, even as I know full well it was a dream and as I am marveling at the absurdity of it. Dreams are odd that way – it is no wonder that the ancients thought they had mystical power, and that some people still gift them with insight. They exist with a foot in each world, the rational and the irrational, the logical human mind and the emotion-driven animal one.

Perhaps the strangest thing about this dream was the fact that, at 33, 3.0 was still about the size he is now, while 2.0 had actually regressed to look as she did when she was perhaps 9, except with some wrinkles.

I don’t think the analysis of dreams is completely without merit. This one plays strongly to the stresses and fears that I am experiencing right now.

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